как на счет такого решения?
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<style type="text/css">
.grey {
background-color: #cccccc;
}
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<div class="content">
<div class="row a">
<div class="col-md-4 el-col">1</div>
<div class="col-md-4 el-col">2</div>
<div class="col-md-4 el-col">3</div>
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<div class="row b ">
<div class="col-md-4 el-col">1</div>
<div class="col-md-4 el-col">2</div>
<div class="col-md-4 el-col">3</div>
</div>
<div class="row c">
<div class="col-md-4 el-col">1</div>
<div class="col-md-4 el-col">2</div>
<div class="col-md-4 el-col">3</div>
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<script>
$(function () {
var a = $(".el-col");
a.hover(
function () {
var self = $(this), parent = self.parent('.row');
parent.addClass('grey');
},
function () {
var self = $(this), parent = self.parent('.row');
parent.removeClass('grey');
}
);
})
</script>
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Здесь же можно и для столбцов задать стиль...