select t1.updated_at,t2.updated_at,t3.updated_at from t1
JOIN t2 on t1.col1 = t2.col1
JOIN t3 on t1.col1 = t3.col1
(
select 'table1' as table, updated_at from table1 order by updated_at desc limit 1
union all
select 'table2' as table, updated_at from table2 order by updated_at desc limit 1
union all
select 'table3' as table, updated_at from table3 order by updated_at desc limit 1
) order by updated_at desc limit 1